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The universe is abundant and it provides. I don’t mean to sound like a New Age crackpot, but today I had an experience that reminded me of this truth in a very powerful way. Be clear with yourself about what you need. Ask for it. Ask God, the universe, or whatever it is you have faith in that is greater than yourself. Be on the lookout for what action you can take toward your goal, and know that divine assistance comes in the form of ordinary people and opportunities you may not expect.

I love the gift of adversity, because it creates opportunities for me to experience the benevolence of this world.

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First, I very rarely (if ever) use the term “thinking positive.” When I hear the term “thinking positive” I see pictures of people smiling like plastic dolls while their houses burn down behind them. I think of people in denial.

A Way of Being

What I’m talking about is an ontological position from which to be operating, which is a fancy way of saying “a way of being in the world.” This way of being is one in which you are sorting for possibility as opposed to limitation. Like this, you can be losing the ability to walk and still be noticing for what is possible for you. For example, “I can’t walk and this totally sucks! And…how can I discover and explore every option available to me to improve my condition?”

You get it? There is a distinction here from thinking positive. Losing the ability to walk sucks, and you can simultaneously feel that, acknowledge it, and take action to get better, because you are putting your attention on what’s possible, not how you’re limited. The other important distinction here is the phrase “take action.” Changing your attitude is essential, it’s the first step. But it’s not enough. If you want to heal your body, you need to also change your diet and your lifestyle, perhaps the treatments you’re choosing, you need to be detoxifying, taking supplements to build up and strengthen your system. You may need to switch jobs or cut people out of your life so that you’re creating an environment that’s as supportive and stress-free as possible. There is no magic pill to treat MS. At least not yet. Taking action isn’t optional if you want to get well.

Why Me?

To operate from this position of possibility is to have a vastly different experience of the world than to operate from a position of limitation. You can spot people operating from limitation a mile away, because they are depressed, close-minded, busy feeling sorry for themselves, and usually downright miserable. These are people who are likely passively praying for a cure, getting worse, and asking themselves questions like “Why me?” They enjoy trading stories of their misery online with others who are operating from the same position. They are people who say things like “Well MS has already taken everything else from me, so why shouldn’t I get drunk and enjoy myself?” Chances are, they are not you, because they probably wouldn’t like this blog.

My Message Is Not Contingent on Me Walking

I have committed to living my life from a position of possibility. In so doing, my attention is firmly on how I can stack everything in my favor to keep my body as healthy as possible. Do I believe this is a guarantee? No, I don’t. To believe that would be foolish. Do I get scared sometimes? Yes, of course! But what I know is that my message is not contingent upon my being able to walk. It doesn’t depend on how disabled or not I am at any given moment. In fact, the day I started this blog and wrote the copy on the About page I was barely able to see out of my left eye. In those moments, I dig ever more deeply into my commitment. For me, there is no other choice.

This way of being that I am encouraging you to operate from – this sorting for possibility – is an internal position. Instead of deciding how to feel based on external events (what most people do) I’m asking you to consistently hold this internal position instead, and allow it to change how you experience what’s going on in the world. Because it will. And if you want to get well, there is no other choice.

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